We all end up in that relationship where we believe that we are going to be together always! The hugs and the kisses and the oh so "I Love You"'s ... Even me! Most of you seen and shared my happiness. What you dont know is that the happiness has come to a closure. It was for the best. How do i feel? It is what it is.. I have not made a big deal like some of my friends have..but thats how they are. ON other things I am aware of difficulties that kept us from being together like lies and secrets but it is no longer a big deal.. I am not a fan of Internet break ups but i had no choice but to be a part of that Facebook group that does it anyway. So we wrote the letters of destructing love. But like they say All good things must come to an end! This was truly something good. Do I hate it ended..nah. Im an even better person now! Im Civil and people love me even more since i am able to handle something like this for the longest.
Question.. Do you see yourself waiting on your significant other to change so you two can be happy as before?
To be completely honest, I don't see that happening. I feel like if someone is going to make a change then they should be able to do so with you by there side. I should not be the one postponing your change. If anything I would be the one helping and encouraging the change.
ReplyDeleteChange is not something can be done alone. It is a mechanism that takes a lot of energy, and one person doesn't have all the energy needed to make that change. Whether we realize it or not, but there is always someone there helping us change.